Well, first of all, Hi Now, straight to the point (I'm actually straight so that's sort of funny) : Or not bc I ramble a lot. As a 25yo straight trans man, who happens to be a virgin and has been single for all his life, I sometimes am scared of ending up alone. I love being alone, I know how to, it's great, you learn how to deal with yourself and stuff but ... I feel like I'm missing out a lot ... I also wanna be in a relationship, and as silly as it sounds, I have no clue on how that world works and it's hard to find someone to talk with bc I don't know anyone going through an identical situation. I go from "the first girl I find and date it's gonna be for life, all good, no breakups or broken hearts" to "maybe I should date a few people before that to have more experience and stop being afraid of relationships and sex" which is a bit of a struggle bc for both I'd have to first start a relationship 🙃 The saying "when it has to happen, it will happen" is taking a bit longer than expected... I just wanted to experience a mutual connection with someone .. Is that weird ..? Does it make sense ..? What am I doing wrong .. ? 💚
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What's up, Happy to know and I appreciate your response ! Thank you so much for sharing and I've saved your e-mail for whenever in the future I feel like I'm struggling dealing with it and need someone to talk with ! It wasn't weird and it was helpful and very kind of you Have a good day !
First of all, your straight to the point joke made me chuckle.
Unlike you I am not straight, but a 18yo queer woman. Like you I am a virgin and have been single all my life. While most of the time I don't have a problem with being alone, and right now definetely wouldn't have time for a relationship, I too get scared of ending up alone and missing stuff.
I absolutely get your point of wanting a mutual connection with someone, but being to akward/scared of actively doing something.
So if you'd want someone to talk to, that at least in some points, is in the same position as you; my email-adress would be email@example.com
Hope this wasn't just weird and maybe a tad helpful?!