I- um.... I have no idea how to masturbate... or how to pleasure myself... I want to try it out... but i don't know how... I watch kiwi's vid about it, but... it didn't clear it up for me... so... can someone help me please?
My sex ed was shit.
so... help?
(i'm afab btw)
Hi,
So of course this is different for everybody but here are some things you might find useful:
- watch porn/read erotica etc. to get aroused (ex. https://www.bellesa.co/story/all)
- use lube, it makes everything easier especially if you're just starting to discover yourself
- get familiar with your vulva, find out how you can stimulate your clitoris ( for me there lies the key to a fullfilling experience :) and because i don't know just how shitty your sex ed was if you're totally in the unknown regarding sex organs maybe do a little research on them)
- and (what I would have found helpful to know, is that) it might take a while to get yourself to orgasm/have like a "spectacular" orgasm
This is just my subjective advice, but I hope this will help you a little.