I'm pretty sure I'm Bi, but I'm starting to think I might be lesbian. I don't exactly like guys, I like anime and fictional guys but that's about it. However, I'm not sure if I'm only into girls. I don't really understand what's going on. I know I like girls but I'm confused on if I'm still Bi or if I'm not. I've been up all night debating between the two. Does anyone have any advise??
Just a reminder you are loved, valid, and always supported. 😊
I felt the same way for a long time, guys just have never really interested me. But I do understand, labels can be stressful. I struggled for a long time with which label I fit under, and that's when I decided to stop stressing myself out and choose a label that meant no label. And I know labels are really important to some people, but if it's just confusing and stressing you out then I suggest labeling yourself queer, or something similar. But if you want a label, then I suggest you give yourself time to figure it out, don't rush yourself, you have your whole life to figure it out. Your feelings are valid, and they'll all make since eventually. If you want a label, identify as bi until you find out you definitely feel different then change it, or if not then keep it. Slow down, breathe, and trust yourself and your feelings. And always remember that me and your community are always here to help. <3
Hey. I'm going through the exact same thing, and want you to know that whatever you find you are is beautiful and valid. Can you think of boys you like? If not, I agree with @HERE.AND.QUEER in saying that you could identify as Bi until you are absolutely certain. <3