Hey, so I've been thinking about my sexuality for a long time now and just can't seem to figure it out, but I really want a label, so I wonder if anyone would have some advice <3
I used to never have any crushes and I didn't even realise people were thinking about sex until one of my friends brought it up when I was 15. But in the last 3 years I had a crushes(?) on 2 girls that I really wanted to get to know and be friends with, so I thought I might be gay bc I also had a few crushes on a few famous women and I used to be quite obsessed with Vanessa from Phineas and Ferb x)
I'm just confused again because I feel like my friends think about their crushes in a sexual way and I don't and also I still don't long for sex, but I do really want to have a relationship with someone and just cuddle.
I think I'm just don't understand what a crush even is, I want to know how my friends feel and if I had any crushes or if it was just that I wanted to be friends with them.
Anyways, that was my little rant about my sexuality, if anyone feels like they had a similar experience or you just wanna say hi, I really appreciate it :)
Attraction presents in everyone differently. Don't worry to much:))
It's seems to me like what @NoName(All Pronouns) has said could possibly be true. Asexual seems to be a fitting label for you and homoromantic as well. And from what you said about sometimes enjoying the sexual scenes on film or in a book but not for yourself does make since and sounds like you fit in the asexual category well. Asexual is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low interest in/desire for sexual activity. And if that does sound like what you're experiencing then there's a high chance of you being asexual. I hope this doesn't sound like I'm trying to push a label onto you😅. I really am just trying to help but if it sounds forced then I do truly apologize. But I wish you well on finding what label fits you! <3
In my opinion you sound like you may be asexual and homoromantic. It means your not sexual attracted to anyone but your romantically attractive to the same gender. If you think that labels doesn't fit you, maybe use the label Queer, it a label you have when you don't have a sexuallity that dosen't really have it own personal label. I hope this is helpful.
hi! I don't want to force a label on you but could you possibly be asexual?