Hey, so I've been thinking about my sexuality for a long time now and just can't seem to figure it out, but I really want a label, so I wonder if anyone would have some advice <3
I used to never have any crushes and I didn't even realise people were thinking about sex until one of my friends brought it up when I was 15. But in the last 3 years I had a crushes(?) on 2 girls that I really wanted to get to know and be friends with, so I thought I might be gay bc I also had a few crushes on a few famous women and I used to be quite obsessed with Vanessa from Phineas and Ferb x)
I'm just confused again because I feel like my friends think about their crushes in a sexual way and I don't and also I still don't long for sex, but I do really want to have a relationship with someone and just cuddle.
I think I'm just don't understand what a crush even is, I want to know how my friends feel and if I had any crushes or if it was just that I wanted to be friends with them.
Anyways, that was my little rant about my sexuality, if anyone feels like they had a similar experience or you just wanna say hi, I really appreciate it :)