Okay so there are a group of males who say things like, “girls are over dramatic” “girls’s always complain about being equal to us but they don’t do as much as us” "girls shouldn’t get the same as us because when A girl goes On maternity leave they dont work for a long period of time so why should they get paid for it when we do all the work" “gils should just be grateful with what they already have all they want to do is just keep getting more” and then they told some of my friends to “go back to the kitchen where you belong” “go make me a sandwich“ they also say things like “all you do is care about yourself“ “giving birth isn’t even that big of a deal and boys go through more pain when the get kicked in the bal@s” “people don’t understand the boys have more struggles then girls” and whenever I try and say something to them all it does is just start an argument and somehow I am the one who ends up Apologising I just don’t understand what I can have You got any advice also I’m really sorry for how long it is I just neede to get it if my chest.💕
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I understand this! I go through this a lot! The best thing to do is research your facts! I mean technically, we don't need men anymore. Two women can become pregnant on their own now because of something we found in our bone marrow. Another thing to do is ignore them. You know better, and you can do better. Just ignore them and prove them wrong, because they are wrong. You can and will do better than them and that's all that matters. Once they see that you are more powerful than them, they literally melt and it is the best revenge. Just be you and work towards your goals! Do everything in your power to change those stereotypes by your actions, not your words. Love you! And good luck! <3
It's absolutely fine that it's long. It sounds like a really hard situation. I think one important thing is to remember that it's not true and you know that. If you have facts, like how many women die in childbirth compared to how many men die from being kicked in the b*lls. You can also acknowledge what they're saying. You can also say that you agree that men should also get leave when they have children(if you do). If you can, try not to apologise because that kind of puts you below them which isn't what you want. I hope at least some of this works. If not, I'm very sorry. GooD luck! You are amazing, you are strong, you can do this! 💕💕