Trigger Warning: mention of rape rape, sexual harassmentI was on a call with a couple friends plus another guy who I didn't personally like, but my friends did. Mother's day is coming up (or was when this happened, at least), and I was asking my friends what I should get/make for my mom. I am a child at heart so I said I wanted to do something with the glitter I recently bought ('cause it was the pan flag glitter and yes).
Then this guy, who I barely know but am not on good terms with before this call, told me I could "get naked, put the glitter on, and dance" which..................................noAnd my friends on this call just sorta laughed and moved on, and yeah, sure, I get it, it's a joke, but I'M not laughing. It made me EXTREMELY uncomfortable but I just sort of brushed it off because "it wasn't that big a deal" and "who cares anyway" and "why can't I just take a joke" and "it's not like he hurt me or even threatened to."But I've never been sexually assaulted or harassed or anything before. I mean I am just a kid. Not even thirteen yet. This was the first time anything like this has happened to me, and I just sorta laughed nervously.And I know it was incredibly minor compared to what some people have been through; rape and abuse and stuff, but this made me incredibly uncomfortable and I don't really know what to do now. I can't tell anyone about it because then I'd be "the kid who couldn't take a joke" which.... hard pass, my social life is difficult enough as it is. But how can I look him in the eye after that? He probably doesn't even know the damage he did to me... it doesn't even really matter.I don't really have a question, not really, just sort of.... what was that? Was that harassment or assault or just a bad joke? And... what do I do now?