So uhm, I don't know how to say this but i have been victim of r@pe and i am now in the process of reporting him to the police but there is no evidence and he denies everything so they just can't do anything. I am extremely scared that I am just overreacting and that I shouldve told him 'no' more often than i already did, so i feel like it's still my fault which i know it's not, but the feeling is still there. I'm going to therapy and stuff, to help me, but is there anyone who has experience with this and could give some tips? - Sara
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@Izzy Thank you, this helps a lot. Somehow the mental health system in The Netherlands found a free spot for me so i will start therapy very very soon. And if needed, they will also try EMDR. But for me it's great to hear that therapy will probably help.
Also, little update, apparently he did this to another girl as well and she's going to the police. He was my colleague, and this all happened at work and now my boss fired him and he's not allowed in the store for another year. He's currently not denying anymore but he said I was okay with
And now i'll probably just stick to the girls for a while cause men can indeed be very horrible. And i know, i have a great future ahead, and i'm gonna work on it so it's gonna be amazing but for now, it's hard.
Thank you for writing this down, and I send you all my love and support.
(Also, i tried adding you on discord? I don't use it frequently so idk how it works haha, but my tag is unknownfollower_#6398 )