right so this is really embarrassing but this is the only community im comfortable with sharing this info to since i trust that you guys wont mock me
i dont watch porn that much - i always found it weird and i dont like it. thats not the point though. what is the point is that whenever i have seen it, the women (im afab nonbinary) have never had like,,, a bit of wrinkly looking ball of skin on the outside of their vagina around where the clitoris is like i have? i dont quite know how to describe it but it makes me really insecure about that part of me and it always has. i feel like i cant have sex because of it because it'll probably weird people out and they'll be like "what's that?"
i'm probably overreacting and every afab person has it but its making me insecure and worried so... is it normal to have a 'ball' of wrinkly skin where ur clitoris is? its probably just under half a centremeter long and when i touch it it doesnt really... do anything? it feels just about the same as if i was to touch my nose, except more squishy and slightly more sensitive. im really confused and i dont know if this is normal or not??? can anyone give me a definitive yes or no answer because ive never seen what i have in any wiki page, article, porn video etc etc
Porn is not representative of what afab bodies look like. It presents a very narrow view that caters to "the male gaze" My body doesn't look like the bodies in that content, that doesn't mean something is wrong with me, it just means that every body is different, human variation is beautiful! If you are overwhelmingly concerned about it, you could have a medical professional take a look to see if it is anything to worry about. (which it most likely isn't)
When it comes to having sex, anyone who is going to body shame you isn't worth your time anyway. Your body is beautiful and uniquely yours, so don't let other people's opinions bring you down.
Dude I'm sure it's totally fine. Everyone's bodies are different, especially vaginas. Don't stress yourself out to much about it. It's okay.