Okay everyone, people have said they'd be keen to have a sex ed series and i was gonna do a sit down and talk about sex / answer your sex questions video while i make my merch, so drop your questions below! and upvote the ones that you want to see too.
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Is it normal to not be nervous but afraid of my first time? I'm bisexual (and I'm dating a wonderful boy) and I'm afraid for my first time...but when I think of having sex with a girl I feel more at ease. (And it's also not that I don't want to with my boyfriend, it's something him and I have discussed.) The misinformation that it's going to hurt has placed an anxiety that doesn't seem like it wants to go away. For as long as I remember it was all anyone said about their first time was the pain, and as a 11 year old reading Wattpad a lot of the fan fic talked about it hurting as well. So it just became a genuine fear of the pain.
Thanks! <3