My grandmother has terminal cancer and I've been avoiding it because I don't want to turn the situation to be about me and I also don't want to run the risk of her not accepting me, but I also don't ant to have to live with the regret of never coming out to her... what do I do?
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should I come out to my grandmother?
should I come out to my grandmother?
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Hello Ollie!
First of all I wanted to send you my condolences for everything that is happening with your grandmother. I know this might not mean much to you since I am a complete stranger on the internet, but maybe it will provide you with a little bit of comfort.
Secondly, and this is probably not the advice you are looking for, no one can tell you ifyou should come out to her.If you think it will help you, your mental health or it is just something you have to do, then I say go for it.
But if you are scared that it might, in any way, cause harm to you or your mental health, then I would advise you not to do it.
I am very sorryif this does not help you at all. I just thought that a general answer, with good intent, might be better than none.
I hope this helps you just a little bit at all.
Good luck!💜