I have always been a very feminine person, but lately i have totally broken down and cried over things not feeling right. I got fake nails with my friend and i felt so wrong wearing them! I know as a fact i use the pronouns she/her i'm just not sure if i use they/them as well. sometimes it feels perfect and other days it feels awful. I'm not sure if its gender dysphoria or overthinking things. I also don't know if any of my thoughts are just society! I'm really confused and didn't know where to turn! please help! ❤️
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thank you so much!❤️
I completely understand where you're coming from, as I have and am experiencing something quite similar. You should do whatever makes you feel most comfortable and like yourself. Don't worry what other people think, because 1) they aren't you and 2) good people will accept you as you. And don't be afraid to try different labels/pronouns/whatever until you find what fits you best, if anything does. It's okay to change your mind.
Wishing you all the best on this journey <333
What you're feeling is completely valid, always remember that. There are a few labels I suggest for you to look into (if you would like a label, if not then ignore this next part). Bigender; people who are bigender experience two gender either at the same time or different times. Genderfluid; genderfluid people's gender identity changes from multiple genders over time. But if you aren't looking for a label to make you comfortable, the maybe just try using she/they pronouns. Just try ne things and see what feels right for you! <3
That sounds really tough. I would just like to say that it's valid and understandable that some days different pronouns feel right. I've been struggling with similar things. Lots of people are really understanding about people using different pronouns on different days. (Obviously some people won't be but I'm not gonna focus on that right now). I think the only thing you can really do is give yourself time and be kind to yourself. This sort of thing can take years and it's okay not to know. If you would like to use a label (it's perfectly okay and valid if you don't), I would suggest doing a bit of research into different labels (it's surprisingly easy to find information) and seeing if one fits or clicks. Personally, I can find labels that describe who I feel about my gender but I don't click with any and that is perfectly fine. It's also cool if one does fit.
Sending you lots of love and hugs if you want them. 💖