helllooo!
so for a while I felt bad because I dress in a way that looks gay or fits some stereotypes and I've felt a lot better about how dress recently because I realized that I feel confident(and happy) while wearing colorful clothing, and that its really helped me meet more people in the lgbtq+ community :D (though viewing people based on stereotypes is bad, saying things like "you don't look gay" is really harmful)
I'm so happy for you! clothes are definitely a great way to express yourself, regardless of how they fit into stereotypes. stay true to yourself <3