I think I'm genderfluid but I don't know. I've already determined that I am panromantic and asexual, so it's really just my gender that I'm still questioning.
Over the past couple months, I've tried out non-binary, transgender, omnigender, neogender, and neptunic gender labels. But none of them really felt right. So then I tried out genderfluid.
And the thing is, I don't always know what gender I am. I don't always have days where I'm distinctly male, female or gender-neutral. Some days I'm not sure and I just sort of guess. I'll look in the mirror and try out they/them, she/her, and he/him pronouns (I don't use neo). I've tried using whatever pronouns feel right at the time, online and with friends, but even then, I still don't know.
On top of that, when I do know, they change so frequently. I have days where I stay the same gender the entire time, and others when I change five or six times.
I don't really know any gender-fluid people I can ask for advice, and most of my knowledge of the identity comes from Magnus Chase, as they have a gender-fluid and transgender character in it (Alex Fierro). Alex always knows, and is very definitive in their gender. But sometimes I really don't know. So am I still genderfluid?
I've been questioning for months and have helped other people with their gender questioning, but for some reason don't know for myself. Anyone have any advice?