Hi! So I kinda know my pronouns, I don't quite know my preference but we can stick with she/he/they! However I’ve also been feeling they/she/he. I don’t know how to figure out my preference and how much society has influenced my view of my gender! And then the most difficult part, my expression of it! I am currently wearing a dress and pigtails because my little sister wanted to match and because I’m with my grandma so my mom insisted I wear a dress. I feel like I might implode and I certainly want to sink into my chair and throw up! This happens a lot (and of course my insecurities make it to where I don’t like myself if masc or femme clothes and finding actually good androgynous clothes is rly hard!) where I hate myself and feel like a fraud in whatever I’m wearing! plus sometimes I feel androgynous, sometimes I feel masc, sometimes I feel femme (it seems very rare tho) So idk if I’m genderfluid or something else! I’ve been identifying as genderfluid just for ease but idk if it accurate! I also don’t know if I’m feeling dysphoria or insecurity and I don’t want to say it’s dysphoria since I don’t want to invalidate ppl who are actually feeling dysphoria and since most of the time it’s not like I want to not have boobs. plus Idk if I am actually non-binary but am trying not to accept it or something since that’s what happened with my sexuality! Anyways any advice would be appreciated sorry this was such a ramble! ❤️
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Gender and gender expression pls help!
Gender and gender expression pls help!
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Thank you so much for the advice!!