Hi! I’ve known that I’m bi since june of 2020. I also know for sure that I have had a crush on a girl before. But I don’t think I’ve ever had a crush on a boy, so how do I know if I’m bi or a lesbian?
I know you’ve probably heard this a lot already, but the best thing you can do in this situation is to give yourself time. If you feel like you need a label right now, you can choose the one you feel more comfortable with and change it in the future if you want. There’s nothing wrong with that, it is completely normal and happens to most of us. And if you don't have any idea of which label feels best, remember that there's no rush, you don’t need one to be valid.
You’ll find out with time and experience. Cheer Up!
I know you’ve probably heard this a lot already, but the best thing you can do in this situation is to give yourself time. If you feel like you need a label right now, you can choose the one you feel more comfortable with and change it in the future if you want. There’s nothing wrong with that, it is completely normal and happens to most of us. And if you don't have any idea of which label feels best, remember that there's no rush, you don’t need one to be valid.
You’ll find out with time and experience. Cheer Up!