Just a reminder, you are always valid. Your emotions, your attractions, your feelings, it is all valid. I'm so so sorry that there are people out there that will always try to invalidate you, always try to tell you that "It's just a phase" or "you're just tired." They are lying. You know yourself best, you are the only one who can judge your emotions. Only you know what's going on inside your head. So what I'm trying to say is, it's ok to feel whatever you feel. It is ok to use the label gay but have attraction to guys and gals. It is fine to be a lesbian non-binary person. It's ok to be asexual and masturbate. Whatever you do, so long as you are not harming yourself or others, is completely fine and I'm so proud of you for staying here and I send you all the love that I can. <3<3<3
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Thank you so much. As a non-binary lesbian, I often get anxiety when i think about trying to explain my sexual and gender orientation. This helps so much.
Thank you so much. Being Bi, sometimes the things people say about it being a phase and that I'll decide get under my skin a little, and I think that they might be right sometimes. Thank you so much for this post. I really needed this.
Thank you so much for making this post. It feels like the rest of the world is against us so it does get to me sometimes and this made me feel really validating. You are amazing (that's to whoever's reading this) and thank you so so much
I'd just like to stop and say how much I love this post right here. In a short simple paragraph you have gave validation and comfort to who ever needed this post. You did exactly what this website was made to do, validate the people who need it most. Basically this is just a big thank you from me and every other person who got the validation they needed from this. So once again just thank you so, so very much!<3
Thank you for saying this it really made me valid in who I am and really helped doubt that I have felt sense I realized I was a Queer individual, Your a amazing person and thank you again.