I don't really know what to do. I just found out that my girlfriend was cheating on me. I was talking with a few of my friends and the topic of relationships came up. No one knew we were dating bc I'm still in the closet. However one of my friends, I'll just call her Katie, said that her and my girlfriend were dating. I hung up the call and just started crying. I called her bc she wouldn't stop texting me saying that she was sorry and she didn't mean to. I don't know if I should forgive her. Does anyone have any advise?
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take your time to see how you feel. Just remember you don't owe her anything.
I don't think that Katie deserves any of the blame if she didn't know you two were together. But I don't think you should forgive your girlfriend at the moment, she cheated on you and hurt you and if you give her the chance she could do it again. But I don't know you or your girlfriend, if you want to forgive her then you should, but if you do still want to be with her it shouldn't be immediately, start off as friends and talk for a bit before anything. But think about what you feel for her before anything, make sure you don't just want to be back with her because you feel she's your only option, there are more people out there who could treat you better. But the main thing you should focus on here is you, your feelings, and your mentality. Make sure you're ok before worrying about anything or anyone else, be in a good and stable state when you make a decision. And one last thing, don't blame yourself a all, not a bit of the blame falls on you, you did nothing wrong. And just remember you are beautiful and above all, valid! <3